[K+/Writing] Personal traits

When I was a child, I was a naughty and self-centered person. I had to lead people, make a decision myself, and sometimes ignore some opinions. It seem that I had not enough social skills. When I thought before, I was ashamed about my childhood.
After I got into the university, I met a lot of people all aroudn my country. Especially, I met a person who has exceeding social skills. Before getting into the university, I had a temper. However, after I met her, I can learn lots of things, for example, controlling my emotions, being considerate other people more. Sometimes I act on your temper, but the frequency has lower than before.
Moreover, I came to Canada and I met another person that I also learned a lot from. Her style is also simular as min, however she is also much more social than me. I can learn ice breaking skill and how to care for other people. She was little bit different with the first girl who I met.
Because of two people who impacted a lot to me, I can grow mentally. And now, if I want to make some friends, I can make a comfortable atmosphere and talk to each other more fluently. Furthermore, some people said to me that they want to be like me.
However, I do not have this trait that think much deeper. It is difficult to think philosophically. I like to think lighter and I do not want to think deeply. At the same time, I meet some situations that I have to think philosophically. When I meet these situations, I thry hard but it is not answer of this. If I can get any traits, I want to get to think philosophically.